More and more mail was marked as spam and lots of other weird things were happening when contacting my private server from the outside.
Weeks of trying to figure it out and now I've finally solved everything with one final click:
Some weird rule in my gateway, source-NATing everything to the internal IP of my gateway... 😅
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